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Pregnancy, Birth & Parenting Books in my Library

15/4/2020

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I have a bunch of books in my office that clients are welcome to borrow.  Please let me know if you are interested in reading any of them.  I do ask for a $20 fully refundable deposit for any item I lend out just in case they don't come back and I need to replace them =)

Subjects include:
  • Pregnancy
  • Birth
  • Parenting
  • Pregnancy Loss
  • Postpartum Depression
  • Breastfeeding
  • Sleep
  • Birth Trauma

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Cover of book "New active Birth" by Janet Balaskas.  A concise guide to natural childbirth.  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
Cover of book 'Your Amazing Newborn" by Marshall H Klaus.  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
Cover of Book "Better Birth: The Definitive Guide to Childbirth" by Lareen Newman.  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
Cover of book "Birth: Complete preparation for your mind and body" by Rachel Broncher.  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide Doula
Cover of book "Juju Sundin's Birth Skills with Sarah Murdoch".  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
Cover of book "Birth your Way" by Sheila Kitzenger.  Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
Available to borrow by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide - "Breastfeeding Naturally" published by the Australian Breastfeeding Association
"The Business of Baby: What Doctors Don't Tell You, What Corporations Try to Sell You, and How to Put Your Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Baby Before Their Bottom Line
Book by Jennifer Margulis and Rebecca Jenkins
Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide Doula
"Birth with Confidence: Savvy choices for normal birth" book cover. Written by Rhea Dempsey.  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula "A child is born" book by Lennart Neilsen
"Families like mine.  Children of gay parents tell it like it is" by Abigail Garner.  Available for borrowing by doula clients of Elemental Beginnings
"How to heal a bad birth.  Making sense, making peace and moving on". Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
How to Heal a bad birth.
"Massage with Love" book Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
"A modern woman's guide to a natural, empowering birth" Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
Natural therapies for childbirth book Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
"Nighttime parenting. How to get your baby and child to sleep" by William Sears.
Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
"The no-cry sleep solution" book cover.  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Birth and Postnatal Services
Breastfeeding a toddler book Available for borrowing by Adelaide doula clients of Elemental Beginnings
"The Oxytocin Factor.  Tapping the hormone of calm, love and healing"  book cover.  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
"The postpartum husband"  Practical solutions for living with postpartum depression.  Book Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
The Postpartum Husband: Practical solutions for living with postpartum depression
"respectful parents, respectful kids"  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
"Sleeping like a baby" by Pinky McKay.  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Doula Adelaide
Sleeping Like a Baby
how to improve communications and your relationship with your children.  book cover Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
Talking with Kids
Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings "Toddler Tactics" book written by Pinky McKay
Toddler Tactics
"unspeakable losses.  Healing from miscarriage, abortion and other pregnancy loss" .  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings Bereavement Doula Adelaide
Unspeakable Losses: Healing from miscarriage, abortion and other pregnancy loss
Water birth book Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
Water BIrth
How to have well adjusted babies book.  Available for borrowing by clients of Elemental Beginnings
Well Adjusted Babies
Birthing a better way, 12 secrets for natural childbirth | www.elementalbeginnings.net
12 Secrets for Natural Childbirth - Better Birthing
The Positive Birth Book by Milli HIll.  A new approach to pregnancy, birth and the early weeks
Positive Birth Book by Milli Hill
Men at Birth by David Vernon. Real stories from Australian men about the birth of their children
*Men at Birth by David Vernon
Book cover: What's right for Me?  by Dr Sara Wickham.  Available for Adelaide doula clients of Elemental Beginnings to borrow
What's right for me? Making decisions in pregnancy and childbirth
Borrow "Inducing Labour - making informed decisions" 
For clients of Elemental Beginnings Adelaide Doula
Inducing Labour - making informed decisions
The Pregnancy & Postpartum Anxiety Workbook
Becoming Us - 8 Steps to grow a Family that Thrives
Birth Without Fear
Cheers To Childbirth
The Down to Earth Birth Book - a practical guide to natural birth
The First 40 Days - the essential art of nourishing the new mother
Group B Strep Explained by Sara Wickham
Homebirth in the Hospital - integrating natural childbirth with modern medicine
Lotus Birth by Shivam Rachana
The Breastfeeding Mother's Guide to Making More Milk
Planning A Baby?
How to Prepare for a Healthy Pregnancy and Give Your Baby the Best Possible Start
by Dr Sarah Brewer
The Postnatal Depletion Cure
Pregnancy Loss - Zoe Taylor
Real food for Pregnancy by Lily Nichols
Why Induction Matters by Rachel Reed
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What is A Placenta Tincture?

15/1/2018

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Placenta Tincture

Have you ever heard of Rescue Remedy?  If so, I like to think of a placenta tincture as your own personalised version.
A thumbnail size piece of your raw placenta is steeped in vodka for 6 weeks. After this time it is ready to strain, resulting in a powerful remedy which embodies your placenta's hormonal, mineral and nutritional quality. 
Similar to a homeopathic remedy where the principle of healing is 'like cures like'. Perfect for when you are challenged or feeling out of balance, this remedy, your own remedy, will always be there to help you regain your equilibrium.
Placenta tincture, cord keepsake and placenta capsules made by Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
You can order a placenta tincture separately or as part of your placenta encapsulation package.

Elemental Beginnings will provide you with:
  • 200mL of your base placenta tincture
  • bonus 25mL dropper bottle so that you can conveniently carry some of your tincture with you
  • an unbleached filter paper to make removing the placenta solids easy 
  • written instructions are on the bottle

Buy Your Tincture Here
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Why Bother With A Postnatal Doula?

12/9/2017

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The surprising reasons you need a postnatal doula

Pregnant woman reclining on a couch. Photo by John Hope. Article: Why bother with a postnatal doula? Written by Kelly Harper, Elemental Beginnings Adelaide
"Olga" by John Hope cc

You can Prepare Before Birth

​During your pregnancy, you read up about postpartum traditions around the world, belly-binding, found countless DIY blogs on the net to make this and that for your post-birth sore bits and your good friends have even offered to bring over a couple of meals for you.  So you figure you've got this fourth-trimester thing covered and have no need for a postnatal doula right!

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How Can a Doula Help with my C-Section?

15/1/2017

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How an Adelaide Doula can support you with your cesarean section www.elementalbeginnings.netHow can a Doula help with my C-Section?
"In 2014 the proportion of [South Australian] women giving birth by caesarean section was 34%, a proportion that has been relatively stable for several years.
Of those who had previously given birth, 31% had previously had a caesarean section. Only 15.9% of women had a
vaginal birth following a previous first caesarean without intervening births, compared with 30% in 1998 (when data first
collected).
The main reasons given for caesarean section were previous caesarean section (37%) failure to progress in labour or cephalopelvic disproportion (26%) fetal distress (14%) and malpresentation (11%)."   SOURCE


This means that approximately 1 in 3 women in South Australia will give birth via major surgery.  This surgery may be chosen in advance as an elective c-section or may happen after labour has started (known as an emergency cesarean).
 
So how can a Doula help you if you have a Cesarean ?
Here are 6 ways I can support you if you are birthing in Adelaide:

1. I will talk through your options with you and help fill in any knowledge gaps you may have.  Options like who will announce baby's sex, who will cut the umbilical cord or will you leave baby attached to their placenta for a while, the benefits of skin-to-skin contact with baby after birth or you might want to discuss your options for pain relief with your care providers.  Having a birth plan isn't necessarily about avoiding a certain outcome, it is about going through your knowledge, understanding and preferences and putting them on paper so that those supporting you are on the same page.

2. While you are waiting and being prepped for surgery, I can provide you with relaxation techniques, acknowledge any feelings you may have about this birth, give you a massage and honour the impending arrival of your child.  I can support your partner by reminding them to look after themselves so that they are in the best position to look after you.

3. With c-sections there is a greater chance that your baby will need special care and often your partner will go with your baby leaving you alone.  This can be a scary and lonely time for you but a doula will stay with you providing continuity of care and may act as a liaison between you, staff and your partner to keep you updated on how baby is doing.

4. If your doctor allows me into theatre with you, I can take pictures of your child being born to create tangible memories of what you couldn't see.  I can reassure you and your partner about what is happening.

5. If I can't go into the operating room with you, I will wait for you either in the recovery area or in your room.  I might accompany other family members and help explain the process to them.  A doula can ease fears and provide comfort at a caesearean birth.

6. After the birth, another advantage of a knowledgeable doula is helping to get breastfeeding established.  This can be challenging after a c-section as baby may be sleepy from the medications and you may need to try different positions to avoid hurting your surgery site.  If baby has gone to NICU / SCBU, a doula can help get pumping going so you can provide the best possible nourishment for your baby and begin to establish your supply of breastmilk.

7.  Finally, once baby is earthside and you have had a few days to get to know each other, you might want to debrief your experience.  Having someone who was there to help you remember all the details you might not and to process everything you (and your partner) have been through is important.

The one thing that consistently determines whether a woman has a positive birth, is not how the baby comes out, but rather how she is treated by those around her.  Respect is important.  No matter what a woman chooses, it is her choice and decision to make on how she will give birth.  Its that control and respect that allows her to step into her power and have a positive birth.
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Author

Kelly is a birth and postnatal doula in Adelaide. She is currently providing birth coaching and support for women planning an elective c-section or induction on a known date at the Women's and Children's Hospital, Lyell McEwin Hospital, Calvary, Burnside or North Eastern Community private hospitals.

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Bereavement Resources

16/12/2016

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Resources for Pregnancy & Infant loss

Kelly Harper is a certified StillBirthday Birth & Bereavement doula supporting families in Adelaide through pregnancy and infant loss

In-person Support

Elemental Beginnings
​As a trained Birth & Bereavement Doula, Kelly is able to provide you with physical and emotional support before, during and after the birth of your baby in any trimester.  This may be guidance over the phone, resources via email or in-person doula care at hospital or your home.  All bereavement services are by donation.
​Please contact me for more information or see my Bereavement Support page

Bloom Wellbeing
Sarah is registered with Medicare for Better Access to Mental Health Care program and can support women with mental health OT support through pregnancy loss or birth trauma. For pregnancy loss she will bulk bill her services.
​http://www.bloomwellbeing.com.au/

Ignite Art Therapies
​Bel uses art therapy to inspire individuals to acknowledge and transition through life while realising their own possibilities.
​http://www.ignitearttherapies.com.au

Dr Heather Mattner
Perinatal Health Psychologist & Midwife
83 Mount Barker Rd
Stirling, South Australia, 5152
M: 0414 499 544

Gemma Johnson Psychology
Gemma provides her services from Hyde Park for:
Anxiety
Panic Attacks
Trauma including EMDR
Women’s Health including pregnancy and IVF
Workplace Issues
Worrying (Generalised Anxiety Disorder)
Social and other phobias
http://www.gemmajohnsonpsychology.com/ 

Hanna Beaven Psychology
Challenges falling pregnant 
Pregnancy related issues 
Grief & loss
267 Fullarton Road, Parkside
0455 140 400
​www.hannabeavenpsychology.com.au/
Local organisations
SANDS
SANDS offer support/counselling in a group or one on one capacity. They also do coffee mornings at a playground. There's an extensive library that families are welcome to borrow from and events held throughout the year to commemorate babies who've di
ed

http://www.sands.org.au/

Sids & Kids SA
SIDS and Kids SA provides free bereavement support to individuals and families who experience or are affected by the sudden unexpected death of a baby or child from conception to six years of age. This includes miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal deaths, SIDS and accidental deaths.  SIDS and Kids SA has been providing support to families for 40 years.
https://www.sidssa.org/

Anglicare SA
Free weekend camps for bereaved children and young people who have lost a parent, sibling or other significant person. Star Bear is for children aged between five and 12-years old while Star Bound is for teens aged up to 17. There are two Star Bear and one Star Bound camp each year and camps are held in the Adelaide Hills. Children and young people are paired with trained volunteer mentors and experience therapeutic sessions, sports, games and arts and crafts.
https://anglicaresa.com.au/mental-health-disability/loss-grief/loss-grief-camps/

Compassionate Friends (SA)
Compassionate Friends is part of a world wide support organisation for bereaved parents. This is regardless of the age of the child at death or the manner of death. Services provided include monthly support groups in 3 metropolitan locations, telephone support to members, a bi-monthly newsletter, a range of brochures and a resource library. A CandleLight service is held in December each year. Some support is also provided to siblings and grandparents.
M: 0456 820 133
​E: tcfsainc@outlook.com

Human Milk for Human Babies SA
HM4HB provides an online space where mothers can connect with other families to donate their breastmilk.  Some mothers find it purposeful and healing to donate their breastmilk to another baby.
https://www.facebook.com/HM4HBsa/

Online Resources
Still Aware
They encourage and support dialogue around the realities of loss, in order to break the silence and taboo surrounding stillbirth. Still Aware is invested in sharing stillbirth research and actively lobbies for stillbirth to be listed and remain on the policy agenda at a national level
http://stillaware.org/

Red Nose Grief & Loss
Formerly SIDS & Kids, with over 40 years’ experience supporting grieving individuals and families, they understand the sudden or unexpected death of a baby or young child is one of the most difficult experiences any person will go through. Their website has been developed to connect individuals and families to a range of support options, useful resources and information.
https://rednosegriefandloss.com.au/

Still Birth Day
​Support prior to, during and after birth in any trimester
​http://www.stillbirthday.com

Grieflink
​Grieflilnk is an online information resource for the bereaved and grieving, their carers, friends and colleagues, and for health and welfare workers
http://www.grieflink.org.au/​

Women's & Children's Hospital
Information on grief and children
​http://www.wch.sa.gov.au/support/grief/grief_home.html



​Keepsakes & Mementos
​
Commemorative Birth Certificate
Commemorative Certificates for Early Loss of Pregnancy are available from Births, Deaths and Marriages (BDM)
to commemorate deliveries that are not able to be registered under the Births, Deaths and Marriages
Registration Act 1996. A commemorative certificate may not be used for official purposes and is provided free of charge. 
Early Loss of Pregnancy Birth certificate application

Heartfelt
Heartfelt is a volunteer organisation of professional photographers from all over Australia dedicated to giving the gift of photographic memories to families that have experienced stillbirths, premature and ill infants and children in the Neonatal Intensive Care Units of their local hospitals, as well as children with serious and terminal illnesses.
Heartfelt is dedicated to providing this gift to families in a caring, compassionate manner. All services are provided free of charge.
https://www.heartfelt.org.au/

Bears of Hope
Bears Of Hope Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support provides leading support and exceptional care for families who experience the loss of their baby.  They seek to provide crucial information and embrace families during their difficult time of loss, and beyond.
​http://www.bearsofhope.org.au/

​Angel Gowns
​Angel Gowns Australia provide services to bereaved families who have suffered the unimaginable stillbirth or death of their baby, families who are or have gone through the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit or families who are impacted on by a child's life-limiting illness or special needs.  From donated wedding dresses they lovingly hand craft Angel Gown garments which are then donated to hospitals, funeral homes and directly to families through special orders
​http://angelgownsaustralia.org.au/

Funeral Information
General information on arranging a funeral from the SA Governement
​https://www.sa.gov.au/topics/family-and-community/when-someone-dies

Frequently asked questions about funerals from the Australian Funeral Directors Association
​http://www.afda.org.au/faq/general-information


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